The willingness and the ability to save money is the
secret of building wealth. So as to save money, you need to spend less than
you actually earn. Though it looks very simple when you say, it is really
difficult to implement. There are plenty of ways to help you start saving
money even on the very tight budget. Saving money or spending less is all
about the personality, belief system, values of a family.
Spending less and saving more are lifelong living
skills that need time to develop. Unless and otherwise, you have a written
financial goals, you will lose your focus and go after consumerism and
materialism.
To save more, obviously you need to spend smarter. To
spend smarter, you need to understand you own spending patterns. Consciously
you need to track all your expenses on a daily or weekly basis. So that you
will be able to find out what influences your spending pattern.
Spending money has got so many influencing factors. But
all these influencers can be classified into five broad spending
influencers.
1)
Emotions:
Your emotions play an
important role in your spending pattern. The positive feelings like happy,
fun, joy can influence you to spend more on entertainments and gifts. The
negative feelings like envy, jealous, shame, stress, depression, frustration
can influence you to spend more on smoking, drinking, buying things you
actually don’t need, relaxation and healthcare.
2)
Traditional Thought:
This is because of you belief
system and your thought process. I need to buy a silk saree every year for
my wedding anniversary. I have to bust crackers for diwali. These are all
the classic examples of how your traditional thoughts will influence your
spending pattern.
3)
Society:
Society in which you live will
have more influence on your spending. You have to buy a car as all your
colleagues are coming to office in their own car. On the occasion of your
kid’s birthday, you need to arrange gifts for all the classmates of your
kid. You should be watching this movie, on a first day first show.
This influencer is caused by
friends, colleagues, neighbours, relatives, and club members. Even at times,
the advertisements and promotional offers like a discount sale can make you
to spend more.
4)
Habits:
Habits formed when you are
growing up can make us spend impulsively. Generally this will be for our
sensual pleasures. Spending on movies, music, eating out, smoking, drinking
are the best examples for this influencer.
5)
Commitments:
This includes paying off your
debts and loans, commitments towards family like school fees, buying
groceries and other provisions, paying rent, paying for medical insurance.
You are committed to pay these expenses earlier.
By tracking and analyzing your
each and every expense, you will be able to identify the influencers which
made you to spend. Here are some strategies to overcome these influencers
and spend smarter:
Control Your Emotions:
Instead of spending money, you
can control your emotions by doing something else like doing yoga or
meditation, watching comedy shows on TV, going to temple or beach. You need
to solve the root of the emotion. You have to do introspection and need to
keep a balanced mind always. Balanced mind is a key for spending smarter.
Self Talk:
You need to consciously change
your thought patterns to come out of traditional thinking. “I don’t really
need a saree for every wedding anniversary”. “I am not a kid; so I need not
bust crackers on diwali”. These kinds of auto suggestions will change your
thought process and you will be able to really prioritize things on which
you spend.
You are unique:
You were born original. Please
don’t die a copy. There is no need to feel bad if you don’t get to spend or
buy things like your friends or people around you. You are unique and
special in your own way. You need to discuss with your family and friends
about “How to live happily by achieving compromised spending patterns?”
Learn and unlearn Habits:
The unwanted habits which make
you spend more can be unlearned. Good habits which make you spend smarter
can be learned. Habits can be learned and unlearned. But you need to know it
is not a quick fix. It involves a process and a commitment.
A habit is an intersection of
knowledge, skill, and desire. Knowledge is ‘what to do and the why’. That is
we need to spend less to save more and become richer. Skill is ‘How to do’.
That is ‘how we spend less and what are all the strategies to be applied for
spending less’. Desire is the motivation, the want to do. What are we trying
to achieve by spending less? How that is more important to us than spending
more. In order to make something a habit in our lives, we have to have all
three.
Unwanted Commitments:
You can’t avoid certain
commitments like groceries, schools fees. But definitely you can discontinue
unwanted commitments like the club membership in which you are not actively
participating and not getting any actual use out of it; the chits
impulsively you have enrolled with a jewelry shop.
Money not spent is saved.
These above strategies will only work if you truly have a desire for future
financial success. You need to be disciplined and persistent in the course
of implementing these strategies. The more you practice smart spending,
wealthier you become.
The
author is
Ramalingam K,
an MBA
(Finance) and Certified Financial Planner.
He is the Founder and Director of
Holistic Investment Planners (www.holisticinvestment.in)
a firm that offers Financial Planning and Wealth Management. He can be
reached at
ramalingam@holisticinvestment.in.
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